No.. not really..
More of just me lamenting over ... me.
I look back and see all my bitching.. and complaining. .
I should be thankful I have one or two friends that still listen when I need them. I have been there and back.. opened up to someone I thought would care.. and found I would be better talking to myself..
I have found persons that listen like I do.. empathicly.. truly care to hear..may not have an opinion. But some times we dont want an opinion..but want to know someone hears us.. that we are not alone.
The reality is that many are where we are..we are not alone..
In the end..that matters most.
The feeling of being isolated..alone.. that place where we feel no one understands.. that is where we never want to be..we are social animals.. we need sympathy..need acknowlegement.. we need to know..wherever we are..we are not alone..others are experiencing similar things...feelings ... stresses.. we are not alone.. even strangers, know this...experience this.
We need to reach out..we need to allow others in.. we need to listen as much as we vent. Really hear what others are experiencing.. it will help up us.. we can see we are not alone.. find others to bond with, ones that through their experience. .can help us with ours..
We see the simarities..and click.. we associate our pains with others .. we realize we are not so different..so alone.. others are where we are..where we have been.. where we may go..
We need to examine and learn..help ourselves from others examples. .
So.. as a tribute to those that have helped me....
THANK YOU!
For those that I have been able to help...
I am glad to know..that I may have helped you.
My distress .. success ..fails.. concerns... and victories. .
May help. We must continue to help eachother.. directly and indirectly..
Life is not meant to be lived alone.. we are not built that way..
But not all of us have a partner.. so we must rely on others in our lives to accept us and help us..even just listen to us..
Most times we are not looking for answers from you..we aremlooking to sound off and it helps us figure out what is next..
Don't shy away because you have your own problems..you don't need mine..
It can help us all if you lend an ear..you don't have to agree or disagree..or even offer suggestions..you need to just listen and be understanding. You may find it can provide a solution to your problems.. or a start to understand .. you.
Helping others ..usually will help you help ..you.
4/13/17
More of just me lamenting over ... me.
I look back and see all my bitching.. and complaining. .
I should be thankful I have one or two friends that still listen when I need them. I have been there and back.. opened up to someone I thought would care.. and found I would be better talking to myself..
I have found persons that listen like I do.. empathicly.. truly care to hear..may not have an opinion. But some times we dont want an opinion..but want to know someone hears us.. that we are not alone.
The reality is that many are where we are..we are not alone..
In the end..that matters most.
The feeling of being isolated..alone.. that place where we feel no one understands.. that is where we never want to be..we are social animals.. we need sympathy..need acknowlegement.. we need to know..wherever we are..we are not alone..others are experiencing similar things...feelings ... stresses.. we are not alone.. even strangers, know this...experience this.
We need to reach out..we need to allow others in.. we need to listen as much as we vent. Really hear what others are experiencing.. it will help up us.. we can see we are not alone.. find others to bond with, ones that through their experience. .can help us with ours..
We see the simarities..and click.. we associate our pains with others .. we realize we are not so different..so alone.. others are where we are..where we have been.. where we may go..
We need to examine and learn..help ourselves from others examples. .
So.. as a tribute to those that have helped me....
THANK YOU!
For those that I have been able to help...
I am glad to know..that I may have helped you.
My distress .. success ..fails.. concerns... and victories. .
May help. We must continue to help eachother.. directly and indirectly..
Life is not meant to be lived alone.. we are not built that way..
But not all of us have a partner.. so we must rely on others in our lives to accept us and help us..even just listen to us..
Most times we are not looking for answers from you..we aremlooking to sound off and it helps us figure out what is next..
Don't shy away because you have your own problems..you don't need mine..
It can help us all if you lend an ear..you don't have to agree or disagree..or even offer suggestions..you need to just listen and be understanding. You may find it can provide a solution to your problems.. or a start to understand .. you.
Helping others ..usually will help you help ..you.
4/13/17
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