I went swimming after work with L and A. It was nice, the pond was warm and empty.
A asked about N. L mentioned the road trip and that hopefully N could come.
A later asked if N was the girlfriend I mentioned. I said yes, and see stated the road trip would be good with the 2 cars and the 4 of us.. I explained that N could not come.. unless something changes. We had planned it but , being short staffed she would have to work.
I wanted to ask , but didn't.
I took A home and went in for tea and cake. K had made some raspberry cake, it was very good,as is all her cooking .
I brought some home and packed a piece for L to take to work.
She loved it!
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I sent N a good morning text, and got a good afternoon reply.. I asked how she was doing...and got:' I'll be better if I won the 875 million and find who stole my saddle'....
All I could say was , I hear you and sent hugs...
I guess I'm not helping.
I know she is working long days and nights and being robbed, and having a very important item taken, something with such meaning . And now questioning her safety that much more..
It just sucks, and I'm here and can't even console her, or help her to feel safe.
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I still don't know when I can chat, I know she said she can when she is working so many hours..but I'm unsure. I don't want to be annoying..
But would like to have more contact..
Since schedules do allow for us to be in physical proximity.. a month apart is a tough way to start a relationship.
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I don't want to second guess or overthink ..even though I am.. I'm trying not to.. trying not to read negatively ..
I understand the violated feeling of being robbed..and a specific item targeted.. one that has so much meaning...
Not to mention it was from her own property..this following the break in at the cabin..
So.. personal safety is also a question.
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So a new boyfriend, hours away isn't a top priority.
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I can make security suggestions, but not sure how it will be accepted..
She had been taking good care of herself for a long time before I came along . I can't assume the job if I'm not asked.. i think it would be taken as an insult.
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I have suggested home security cameras and looked at a few types, but not finding a 'this is what you need to get' solution.
Primarily because I'm not sure what aspect she is wanting.
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So confused.
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Maybe she will have a minute free to chat on Monday.
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I found my hard drive with the car programming software. And installed it on an old laptop.. I will see if I can read the ECM in the project car..
Then send some posts and look for programming procedure help..
I think if I can put the original module in , I can read and save the programming, then upload it to the new module. Then write it to the rest in the car and get them all in sync.
It is not an easy process.
Maybe if you do it more often..
Like anything else..
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I have Lenny's amp and Jeff's radio to get done..I need to open the amp and see what parts I need to replace..so I can make a parts order.
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I'm sore, I think I hurt my back bringing in the groceries today.. I'm so sore.
I'm just getting old...
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