Loss.

Everyone experiences loss.
Either expected or sudden.
It does not make it any less painful.
Most deal with loss based on the proximity to our life.
Someone near to us..is more painful than someone we barely knew.

Loss is loss. It means something to someone.
Some are devastated by the loss.
Some survive.
Everyone deals with loss differently.
People mean different things to different people.
How we react to that loss in our life.. is a personal thing.
No one can judge how we should feel about it.

The hole in our lives that is gone forever...
Only we can judge what that means to us.
And no one can fault us for that.

When it comes to death.. and the loss we experience..it is a personal experience.
We must make peace with the dead and the living..
We need to figure out how we need to continue on with our memories and ghosts.
No one can tell us when to stop greiving..or how we should feel.
It is completely up to us..where we feel we are...
If someone doesn't understand that.. they really don't know.
Until they do.. you hope they never do.. but you know they will...
As you get older.. life takes more from you than it gives..
Sad.. but true.

Embrace those that love you..
Understand those that don't.

Continue..be you.

Know.. someone loves you.

R
10/24/16

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