What to..
What not.
Talking and expressing one's self is a good example of communication.
You must listen and speak.
Hear all that is there, even if it is not spoken.
Long distance communication, by most electronic means, does not always allow you to see the reactions to your conversation.
You have to listen intently to everything.. or read all the information.
If you dont you can miss an important clue.
I have always paid close attention to what I am given. Usually I over analyze...and derive conclusions that take me down the wrong winding road.
With some conversations..that is not hard to do..
And some conversations are more meaninful and require time to settle. You have to let them be..let them travel down the road..and see where they lead. Not determine ahead of time ... before they have matured..
To do this..you need to shut off that analyzer...and let it be.
Tough but totally possible.
Do....
This entire post really dont mean a whole lot..it is a conversation I am having in my head...and I really dont know what the deal is.. just one side of my brain telling the other... to stop over-reacting... stop the analysis. It does not need to be.
That said.. it was a beautiful day..the sun was shining..and no one was yelling at me , and I didnt have to yell at anyone...
I'd say.. it has been a good day.
R 1/27/16
What not.
Talking and expressing one's self is a good example of communication.
You must listen and speak.
Hear all that is there, even if it is not spoken.
Long distance communication, by most electronic means, does not always allow you to see the reactions to your conversation.
You have to listen intently to everything.. or read all the information.
If you dont you can miss an important clue.
I have always paid close attention to what I am given. Usually I over analyze...and derive conclusions that take me down the wrong winding road.
With some conversations..that is not hard to do..
And some conversations are more meaninful and require time to settle. You have to let them be..let them travel down the road..and see where they lead. Not determine ahead of time ... before they have matured..
To do this..you need to shut off that analyzer...and let it be.
Tough but totally possible.
Do....
This entire post really dont mean a whole lot..it is a conversation I am having in my head...and I really dont know what the deal is.. just one side of my brain telling the other... to stop over-reacting... stop the analysis. It does not need to be.
That said.. it was a beautiful day..the sun was shining..and no one was yelling at me , and I didnt have to yell at anyone...
I'd say.. it has been a good day.
R 1/27/16
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