Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Hello there!

Life is very strange.

Opportunity depends a lot on perspective..and assertiveness.

You can miss out on a lot if you just don't see it.
Or if you don't act on what you see.

Sometimes you need to determine if what you see..affects you I. A positive way..or if you should let it run it's course.
Sometimes..you have to wait and see..sometimes you miss the boat.

A good guess or an educated response will save you... maybe.
If you jump the gun ( another phrase I need to examine)...
You can lose out.
But if you wait too long.. take too long to figure it out..

You lose.

And usually.. no going back.
End of story.. you blew it.

Yes..I know this well..the voice of experience... lost many a thing that should be mine.. many a thing that would have made my life heaven... but a perso. Tries to live and learn... some do..most don't. Just to repeat again and again..

Everyone has that 'one' , the one that means it all.. and once it has gone.. either by your mistake..life..death.. or their mistake..it isthat gone.
You need to figure out if you have learned something or are doomed to repeat until you do.
Some things ..some circumstances are unavoidable. .but. you are where you are .. and to continue.. in the world.. in this life.. which you should.. you need to see all that it was..accept it for exactly what it was..
A moment in time..a moment in your life..
It has deep meanings.. much significance. . It made you the person YOU are today..

Yes with all your flaws and issues.. it made you.
You were so absorbed In the life you had.. it molded you to the awesome person you have become .
Now.. you have a new life..and you need to live it..

You are loved.. you are loveable.. do not sell yourself short..do not settle..

People can see your worth..you are a desireable human..do not think you have to take what you can..because no one will ever measure up to what you lost..
That is not what it is about.. you should not be looking for a replacement.. you should be looking for what makes your heart smile...laugh..think.. live!

You will never.. NEVER.. know..if what is gone would have made you happy forever.. you won't! The chance is past.. gone.. quit tormenting yourself over it..

Love them forever..

Move on.

That does not mean you never loved them...
It don't mean you don't love them..
It means..you know...
It is done.

It means you can love another..

It is allowed..

It don't mean you don't ..didn't love them.
It means you are alive and human..

You can allow your self to love..and live.

Live

Love

Yes, LOVE!

R
8/22/16

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