Sometimes I want to post..but have no real starting point.
So finding a post title is not always easy.
I usually have a lot rolling around in my head..and the thoughts are fighting to get out..I find it difficult to focus enough to post a coherent thought..
I currently am thinking about my last conversations.. if you dont know this I always do that . Sometimes to a fault. Mostly with a smile. I love being able to open up and explain me. I can be more than just one type of person..because I care on so many levels.. I can see the ranges I am able to be the friend and more.. I do step back and see what is needed and move from there.
Friendship requires a person to be more and sometimes less ..
It is always good..the heart understands. .and it is not ever because the feeling changes..it is what it is in the highest form..even though I scale it back to a lesser form..lesser is not really the correct definition..it is less intense form of friendship..relationship... I am still me..I still care as deep..and realize I must not be so intense..
It does not hurt me..because I am still a 'friend' and the amount of caring doesnt change..it just appears to be different. It really isnt and it is never less it is enough. The feeling dont change..it is just expressed in a different way. The warmth is still there.. and the caring still comes through... I hope.
I know nothing is promised if it isnt defined.
Definitions are continents in themselves..and it can be difficult to commit if you really dont know where you are. Most of us dont know where we are minute to minute..which makes the day to day that much more elusive. It isnt a real problem..it is how most of us deal with what to do next.
Nothing is written in stone..
If your lucky, you can see where you need to be...and who you need in your life to help keep you moving forward.
Standing still is never the correct option..you have to keep moving foreward..
Someone I know compared it to standing in a river.. everything is rushing by and if you are not moving..you are left behind.
You can either go with the flow..or go upstream...but if you stand still everything keeps moving...everything changes..and you are left behind..if you move with you are moving towards something..if you are moving against the flow...going upstream..you are headed towards some destination..no longer stagnant...but have a goal..which is always good.
I dont know why that thread happened..but it was in my head..and now you have it..
So this odd titled post is here..
Till next time...
R
12/09/15
So finding a post title is not always easy.
I usually have a lot rolling around in my head..and the thoughts are fighting to get out..I find it difficult to focus enough to post a coherent thought..
I currently am thinking about my last conversations.. if you dont know this I always do that . Sometimes to a fault. Mostly with a smile. I love being able to open up and explain me. I can be more than just one type of person..because I care on so many levels.. I can see the ranges I am able to be the friend and more.. I do step back and see what is needed and move from there.
Friendship requires a person to be more and sometimes less ..
It is always good..the heart understands. .and it is not ever because the feeling changes..it is what it is in the highest form..even though I scale it back to a lesser form..lesser is not really the correct definition..it is less intense form of friendship..relationship... I am still me..I still care as deep..and realize I must not be so intense..
It does not hurt me..because I am still a 'friend' and the amount of caring doesnt change..it just appears to be different. It really isnt and it is never less it is enough. The feeling dont change..it is just expressed in a different way. The warmth is still there.. and the caring still comes through... I hope.
I know nothing is promised if it isnt defined.
Definitions are continents in themselves..and it can be difficult to commit if you really dont know where you are. Most of us dont know where we are minute to minute..which makes the day to day that much more elusive. It isnt a real problem..it is how most of us deal with what to do next.
Nothing is written in stone..
If your lucky, you can see where you need to be...and who you need in your life to help keep you moving forward.
Standing still is never the correct option..you have to keep moving foreward..
Someone I know compared it to standing in a river.. everything is rushing by and if you are not moving..you are left behind.
You can either go with the flow..or go upstream...but if you stand still everything keeps moving...everything changes..and you are left behind..if you move with you are moving towards something..if you are moving against the flow...going upstream..you are headed towards some destination..no longer stagnant...but have a goal..which is always good.
I dont know why that thread happened..but it was in my head..and now you have it..
So this odd titled post is here..
Till next time...
R
12/09/15
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